Yes, others actions effect us… in many different ways.
But, your actions are what are the most important thing in your life.
If you want to change the reactions you are getting from the outside, change the inside first. If you want better in your life, you have to be better.
What you do is what matters, not what others do.
Let it go.
Release the pain you are holding onto from wrongs (self-inflicted or from others).
Think about it, are you really in a place to judge anyone (for anything)?
No one is without sin.
You are the one who creates your story. Do you like what you’re reading?