Words to live by…
Learn to listen, hear, and see the facts. Assumptions upset those involved because the truth is nowhere in sight. Judging someone only speaks volumes about you, it says nothing about the person you are judging. When you or someone you love says harmful things it would have been easier to think before reacting – what is said cannot be taken back.
Feel… Feelings won’t lie to you, not matter what the words are saying. Feel so that you can know what someone else is feeling. Hurt and pain are worth knowing, but they are also worth correcting and moving forward from. Know the pain so that you can fully feel the joy!
In order to recover from damage one must forgive the person who wronged you and you must have self-forgiveness. The next step is allowing you or the other person to SHOW you, to prove to you that they are sorry and that they are willing to move forward and through actions are willing to make things right by proving it to you.
Let someone prove/show to you that they deserve your trust.
Words mean nothing in way of earning trust and regaining what was lost – the saying always holds true = “Actions Speak Louder Than Words.”
Be Action.
-Clare Angelica