WE all have one… The box of what-ifs… and buts… and maybes… and I should have said sorry… and I wish I was there… and I miss yous and I should have said I love yous and I’ll get to it laters… and I’m not good enough so I’ll stop halfway through… That box is the holding ground for all of our self-doubts. Well, you know what you should do with that box… TORCH that…
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Now, I’m not saying that men can’t say this in the reverse or that women must / have to excel past men… What I am trying to convey is this: You’re lazy. But, don’t worry, so am I. If we all really did everything that we had been thinking about doing we would utterly astound ourselves. We…
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Seeing what is truly before you — (not what you wish or have imagined was there) — is the first step to creating the future you truly want and deserve. You need to drop the charade. Dream big. Wake up. Do it. Get real. Seeing and realizing what is actually happening is a huge step…
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Before you start, make sure you are going to finish. I’ve heard this over and over again… I start all these projects, get half-way through, and stop. WHAT!? If you are going to start something, finish it — if for no one else than yourself… feel the accomplishment of a project well done. Whatever you do,…
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The moment we lose sight of our goals is when we start to flounder and doubt ourselves, our path. Let it go. Remember the feeling of life rushing through your veins when you feel the energy of what brings you joy. Recall the elation of taking steps forward towards what you most desire. That is…
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Discover your passion — Make it your reality — Let it work for you.
Yes, you are going to have to dream bigger, act tougher, and be better …than yourself. You are your only competition BECAUSE no one else can see your goals BUT you. You will have to work smarter, be braver, and take risks in order to succeed. You will need to ignore anyone and everyone who…
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When we finally take those first steps past fear we realize there is truly nothing to be afraid of. Use your fears to your advantage. Take that which you fear and do it! Beat it! Fear is an alarm system — it tells you when danger is near, it signals you when something isn’t right, and it also…
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If everyone stopped what they were doing because of being scared, “nightmares”, and fears …nothing would ever get done! Use your nightmares to your advantage and turn them into a dream you want to have — take control and alter there course to suite you (not the other way around). For me, nightmares are inspiration…
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I do what I do for me, not for you.
Do it because they said you couldn’t. Yes, if you are as stubborn as I can be (from time to time :)) the fuel someone gives you from telling you you can’t do something is like detonating a live bomb — the wreckage is epic. If I listened to other’s opinions regarding my writing career I…
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Courage. That’s all you need. Be courageous. Be brave. It’s quite literally all you need. You must first have the courage to take the leap, to take the necessary action towards that which you want, to get the energy in motion, and then, once everything is moving, you find that it was really easy. You find…
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