Nobody cares about what you could have done — They only care about what you have done. It’s time. People stop listening after awhile if all you talk about is what could have been, what you are going to do, or what might be. What matters is your actions, right here and right now. Be…
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I love a devastating rain that washes my slate clean. -Clare Angelica
The cost of not following your heart is spending the rest of your life wishing you had. I do NOT want to be one of those people! — And thus far, I’m not. Unfortunately, many people are in the “wishing” category because they listened to the opinions of others when they should have been listening solely to…
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This is the decision you don’t come back from. That’s right, make a decision and keep your eyes forward, no looking back. It’s time. We get stuck in the past because we hold onto an idea that no longer exists. Make a decision to move forward and leave the past in the past — don’t allow it…
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You train people how to treat you. If you allow people to treat you a certain way, they will continue to do it. Stop accepting poor behavior. — Stop accepting excuses. — Stop compromising your integrity for others. BUT, don’t forget the opposite side of the blade — quit treating others in a way you…
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No, you do not deserve what you are not willing to show up for to get. I’ve heard this sooooo many times from sooooo many people — they want the easy ride, they wish they had been born rich, they want everything given to them on a silver platter, and they don’t want work to…
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Sometimes, the best thing you can say is, “Goodbye.” I have run up against this many times in my life… The instances where you stay too long when you know you shouldn’t, you put up with behavior you know to be unacceptable, and you allow your values to be walked on. Fear is why we…
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This just makes me laugh… 🙂 We are all disturbed in our own little ways, so you might as well come in and join me.
Now, forgiveness and acceptance are both optional. Forgiveness is a wonderful thing to grant on others because you are also granting it within yourself. You are forgiving them. And don’t forget you can forgive yourself (even without the second parties forgiveness.) Forgiveness is a gift to everyone and anyone it graces. Trust must be earned, especially if there has…
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There is opportunity in chaos. – The Phantom, 1996 movie I LOVE this small tidbit of knowledge. Chaos is destruction, it’s crazy and wild, and it makes you feel completely out of control — until you see the silver lining. I have had plenty of chaos in my life — romantic relationships, friends drama, my own drama,…
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Do it because they said you couldn’t. Yes, if you are as stubborn as I can be (from time to time :)) the fuel someone gives you from telling you you can’t do something is like detonating a live bomb — the wreckage is epic. If I listened to other’s opinions regarding my writing career I…
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Courage. That’s all you need. Be courageous. Be brave. It’s quite literally all you need. You must first have the courage to take the leap, to take the necessary action towards that which you want, to get the energy in motion, and then, once everything is moving, you find that it was really easy. You find…
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